If you don’t stop and have a look at this situation and how you are acting you are going to head for a lot of disappointment. You are currently or will be entering into a situation where you are allowing yourself to be in an unhealthy environment. You will be letting your shadow self rule your life rather than you having full control. This could be a downfall through temptation, an addiction or entering into a toxic relationship. Do not allow yourself to be involved in all of this negativity. It will take courage but you need to change this cycle of self sabotage and toxicity. It will become apparent that whatever you are allowing to happen in your life is no longer serving you. Hopefully this will give you the drive to address the problem and start taking positive action towards banishing it for good. If you do nothing, you will remain endlessly connected to negativity and unhappiness.

You may be kidding yourself when it comes to you own self-analysis. You may be in an unhealthy relationship that you know is toxic but cannot find the strength to break free from. You could also be battling addiction or the addiction is taking place around you. For some reason you are making excuses and telling yourself this is ok when it really isn’t. You are trying to convince yourself that all is well out of fearing change. If you go deeper into your shadow self and listen to the voices that lie within this part of your soul they will tell you the same story. They are saying that this dis-ease is ok and that you deserve to be in all of this mire. You can see the truth when you look into your shadows. It never is pretty but at least you know what is wrong and what you need to get rid of. Happiness is not acquired through a quick fix, people pleasing or hoping everything will turn out ok. Happiness is a birth rite and something that we need to aspire to throughout our lives. Contentment should be the first emotion we feel as soon as we wake up in the morning. You know this is not your first emotion, so it is now time to rectify this situation.

You could be surrounded by people who you love that are either toxic or have addictions. It is not your destiny to endure this negativity and help the person that you are with or have in your life. It is for them to sort their own issues out rather than rely on you to save them. It is time for you to wake up and look at your situation with clarity and truth. Are you happy? Are you in a co-dependent relationship? Are you just going along with this situation because it is the easier route? If you are nodding your head then it really is time to change this. Yes it will take a lot of courage to break free, but if you allow yourself to be surrounded by toxicity you will only experience future heart break and disappointment. Make the right choice. Your past experiences have diminished a lot of your self-worth and self-belief. Know this, you deserve to be happy and feel free to do whatever you want whenever you want in the pursuit of happiness. If something or someone is blocking you from your freedom it is time to unchain yourself from their burdens and fly free.

You always dream of being free, strong and able to navigate your way along life’s interesting paths making the right choices for yourself. You want to enjoy the fruits of life and have nothing but happiness, love and lightness in your life. You know however that you have a tendency from past experiences to want to be loved. This normally results in you being in co-dependent or toxic relationships. It certainly isn’t your fault but if you feel you don’t deserve any better than all you will get is the predator. You could even be fearing that your compulsive behaviour is out of control or you are finding yourself addicted to a certain behaviour or substance. Fears sometimes are an internal message flagging us to a reality that something needs to change. You know deep down if you have a problem. The first thing is to admit you are in a bad space. The second thing is to do something about it. Analyse your fears and see if they are telling you that you have lost control. If not, listen to your hopes and keep the fear factor at bay if it hasn’t even come into a reality.

If you do not stop this behaviour or way of life you could be heading for a lot of heartache and disappointment. You may be in a toxic relationship or thinking of getting involved with someone. There could be red flags already that are telling you that this person isn’t for you. Try not to look for the easy options and settle for second best. Likewise do not look for a quick fix or instant gratification as it really will not serve long term happiness. You could even be aware that your compulsive behaviour has got too much or you find yourself in an addiction situation. It isn’t all bad news, this is just a moment in time where the universe is telling you enough is enough. Dig deep into your shadow self and try to discover why you may self-sabotage or enter into unhealthy relationships or situations. The alarm has gone off for you to wake up and start cutting the cords that bind you to toxicity and darkness. Don’t hit the snooze button, it is time to act and make change for your own health and happiness.