Things haven’t turned out the way you wanted them to and wow are you wallowing in the pool of self-pity! Yes it was tough, yes it has brought major disappointment and even hurt, but it has happened and is now in the past. Give yourself some time to process what happened but then stop the regrets and the ‘could have been’s as it is just a waste of energy. Make sure you forgive yourself and anyone around you as this will open the door to you moving on and starting new opportunities and possibilities. Discover the vital lessons that were learned in this situation and take them with you to an exciting new future where perhaps you won’t make the same mistakes again. Our human life is all about transition after landmark events, this is just one of them in a grand tapestry of many.

There has been a major setback in your life which has been borne from a situation or from a person that has created it. It may have left you ashamed, weak or even broken as you felt that you didn’t deal with it very well. You may be harbouring negative emotions which really need to be shared now with your nearest and dearest. It is time to rid yourself of this burden that no longer serves you as this all belongs in the past. You may even be at a stage now where you have acknowledged what went wrong and are ready to forgive yourself and others. You may have embraced what you have learned from this experience and now look to the future with gratitude as you have been armed with more wisdom and depth of understanding. The glass half full is what you are aiming for now as you move on from this chapter.

You are trying very hard at the moment to move on from a situation or person that brought you major disappointment and upset. It has been hard as this was an integral part of your life and stings every time you think of it. Yes it was hard and yes you feel let down but it really is time to move on and this is what you are wanting to do right now. Ideally you want to see this experience as a valuable lesson, one that shall not be repeated. You want to start afresh, not feel sorry for yourself and move on to a new phase in your life. You may also be wanting to forgive yourself and others involved as this really will help you live a brighter and lighter life. If you keep focused on this then you really will open yourself up to positive change.

You can’t stop the resentment building at the moment as you think of this situation or person that has brought you disappointment in the past. You have had a major upset and are allowing the events to continuously play out in your mind. You know this isn’t healthy but you can’t let go of what has happened. You are feeling bitter and want to get closure but you just can’t. Be aware that by staying in this energy and possibly feeling sorry for yourself may lead to actions and behaviour that will do no good. Try to change your mind set to a more positive outlook. Look at ways to let this situation or person go as it really isn’t serving you well holding onto it. Stop the thoughts around this experience as soon as you think of them and replace them with good thoughts and positivity for the future. If you don’t, your underlying thoughts will thwart any attempts at fortuitous change and movement.

You have experienced in the past a situation or person who let you down in a major way. It brought a lot of hurt and disappointment which left you feeling bitter and angry. It is ok to feel sorry for yourself for a while, but this card may have come up to check that you have moved on and still do not hold any regrets or negative energy around this experience. By harbouring negative emotions around this experience, you are only stopping yourself from happiness and new opportunities. Check that you have let go of this situation and know that forgiveness of yourself and others is key to moving on. Take this situation as a valuable lesson where you have learned a lot about yourself, other people and your life in general. By doing this, you are leaving your past behind and are embracing your future with happy anticipation.