You have mastered the balance between emotion and intellect so that any given challenge that comes along is met with calmness and patience. You have found a perfect way to maintain your boundaries with people but also make them feel fabulous by doing it. You will not allow negative people to influence your mood or decision making which stands you on firm and respected ground. You no longer let your emotions rule in any given situation. You would rather stand back, be empathic of others but maintain a strong and silent resolve. You have learned what it means to be an amazing leader and confidante because of these skills. It is time to give yourself a pat on the back! Alternatively, you may come into contact with a mentor or spiritual advisor who will guide you lovingly along your path.

You may be allowing your feelings to overwhelm you where everything appears to be a drama. By keeping all of these feelings bottled up you are in danger of them exploding into a major trauma. You may be exposed to others negative opinions or even someone that is emotionally manipulating you. If this rings true you really must seek the guidance of a therapist or trusted friend so that you can find a way to escape the clutches of this bully. Try not to fear facing your feelings head on. Make an effort to connect with yourself and look within. Journaling, meditation and therapy may be a way forward if you really do feel your emotions are outweighing your intellect.

You are looking to be the leader that everyone aspires to. You have mastered how to gauge any person or situation without emotion and to act merely on intellect. The beauty is though, that you still have compassion and empathy for the people that you may need to address which makes you an all-round winner.  You are aiming to be the strength for the weak in your midst and guide them to a place that makes them feel safer. You want to impart your wisdom in order that others are inspired and can trust your judgement. If you are aspiring to become a life coach, therapist or mentor, you are fulfilling your destiny.

You may be wondering why you keep getting the urge to help people and listen to their problems. You may also feel that any challenge you come across you face with vigour. This is because finally you have found a healthy balance between emotional responses and intellect. You no longer let your emotions rule over a person or situation. You therefore have become a very wise individual who can be the strength for people without them overloading you with all of their stuff. You can also take on any challenge without it becoming a drama. You have found a perfect space in your energy that allows you to be a very trusted and mature leader that has everyone’s interest at heart.

In the past you have proven yourself to b e a very dependable, compassionate and empathic leader. You have balanced emotion and intellect to create a perfect mix that manages challenges easily and problem people with ease and grace. You were a great listener who encouraged people to warm to you and share their innermost feelings. The trick was that you knew when to stand back and respect your  boundaries. Lately those boundaries may have become a little confused. You may even be emotionally manipulated by someone and know that you need to break free. If this is happening, dig deep and remember what an amazingly grounded person that you are and calmly take steps to remove yourself from this situation. You’ve got this, just as you did before.