You find yourself in the strongest mental state at the moment my dear friend and are using your intellect and perception to call the shots. You are working from your head and not being distracted by emotions and ego which is exactly where you need to be. People around you are respecting your boundaries and acting accordingly. It is not that you don’t care, you just want to cut through the nonsense and get to the heart of the matter of whatever surrounds you. This strong, resilient and focused energy that you are vibrating on now is perfect in contributing to your goals, belief systems and where you want to be. Stay in this state of being, you will succeed in anything that you want to achieve.

It’s time to sort the wheat from the chaff my dear friend! You are letting situations and people overwhelm you because you are not seeing the bigger picture. Emotion is overwhelming your perception and clouding the situation around you. It is time to look at a person or situation from an intellectual point of view rather than letting your heart get in the way. This doesn’t mean that you have to be cold hearted with no compassion but you really do need to toughen up and get to the truth of the matter rather than withdraw, worrying that you are going to upset someone or yourself. Alternatively you may have taken the resilient, no nonsense option a bit too far and are coming across as heartless and uncaring. Get the balance right between heart and head and you will succeed in your endeavours.

You have come so far in working on your boundaries. You have vowed to never be taken for granted again and will not fall for other people’s nonsense and manipulation. You are aiming to not let your heart rule your head which is a great way to be if you have to make important choices. This resilient side of you is met with respectful people around you who know they can be heard without you getting emotional and distracted. You no longer want to beat around the bush anymore with situations and people. Getting to the heart of the matter is what you are aiming for now in any given situation. You want to keep cool, keep focused and drive yourself forwards with strength and diligence. Well done you, at last you are seeing the results of your hard work!

You are trying and it looks like succeeding at the moment with an internal battle. You are trying to not allow emotions to interfere with your decision making. You have noticed that when a person challenges you or you need to make a decision in any given situation you immediately worry about their feelings or your own. You have noticed a pattern and are now trying to rectify it by aiming to get to the truth of the matter without any nonsense. You are seeing more clearly now and are making decisions from an intellectual stand point rather than with emotion. This is what’s needed to get you where you want to be. It doesn’t mean that you don’t care, it just means that you are sorting through the fluff and looking at the situation for what it really is without your heart getting involved.

In the past you have always allowed your heart to rule your head which has left you unhappy or you losing out on an opportunity. You may be an empath and have put other’s feelings and situations before your own. You have found that this hasn’t really got you anywhere in life. You have been mindful in starting to build boundaries and have seen more gratifying results when people are kept at a respectful distance. You have learned to start using your intellect more with people and in situations rather than letting your emotions cloud the truth. By getting to the heart of the matter and avoiding the white noise you are getting far more success than allowing feelings and ego to get in the way. It doesn’t mean that you have to be merciless and cold hearted, it just means that you have established personal strength. When you resonate intellect and resilience you attract respectful people and overcome challenges far easier.